Recent Shootings Highlight America’s Fatherhood Crisis

Chris Woodward

The head of a faith-based scouting organization is offering a solution to prevent shootings and other attacks.

ā€œThe fix for this stuff isnā€™t gun control and all the other things weā€™re debating,ā€ Trail Life USA CEO Mark Hancock told The Todd Starnes Show. ā€œItā€™s fathers and father-likes that step up and find ways to provide moral, strong, clear, leadership.ā€

Hancock said many boys today are angry, and boys who are hurt and angry hurt themselves and other people.

ā€œWhen you look at some of these mass shooting situations, the number of those young men that were involved do not have an active father at home is 90 percent or higher depending on how you count these things,ā€ Hancock explained. ā€œIt points to something thatā€™s relatively recent in our society, and we talk a bit about it as a boy crisis.ā€

Hancock stressed that boys need and want firm boundaries, and they want to know the difference between right and wrong.

ā€œAs we distance ourselves from things that for generations weā€™ve paid attention to, we put these boys adrift, and they tend to look like theyā€™re in rebellion or that theyā€™re just apathetic because theyā€™re just not sure of the rules,ā€ he continued. ā€œBoys need that clear structure, and we need to recognize that boys and girls are different, and boys and girls both need programs that are aimed at their specific strengths and in the ways that they grow best.ā€

Difference Between Boys and Girls

ā€œThat idea that boys and girls are different runs contrary to what theyā€™re trying to teach us in society,ā€ said Starnes.

ā€œYes, and thatā€™s really sad,ā€ replied Hancock. ā€œItā€™s not a social construct that their eyes are constructed differently, that their hearing is different, that their brains are designed differently and that they develop at different rates, that they mature at different rates.ā€

Hancock encouraged fathers and ā€˜father-likesā€™ to step up and spend time with their sons and boys.

ā€œThere are so many of them they donā€™t have a dad at home and are desperately in need of somebody in order to show them the way that they can become a responsible and a winning man,ā€ said Hancock. ā€œThatā€™s how we fix this. Hurt boys will hurt other people. Weā€™ve just got to put a stop to that.ā€


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